Monthly Archives: July 2010

Ari is not the best sleeper these days, but one thing is for sure. I cannot get him to nap or go to sleep for the night without this book:

This is what I would consider an “old school” children’s book. Originally published in 1974, Cars and Trucks and Things That Go By Richard Scarry, was one of my brother and I’s favorite books. My mom had a funny feeling that Ari would love it too, so she bought it for him.

She was right, he loves it. Maybe it’s because he is utterly obsessed with cars? I don’t know. But whatever the case may be, he is napping right now because I read it to him. Here is a sample page from the book in case you are unfamiliar with it.

Scarry (who sadly passed away in 1994) had a quirky sense of humor and includes vehicles like a “cheese car” which is driven by mice, or a pickle car. There is also a “bananamobile” driven by monkeys. In addition to the funny fictional vehicles there are also real cars and trucks to identify.

So, what are you waiting for? If you have a vehicle obsessed toddler you need this book! Click below to order it.

In a previous post, I asked for ideas to keep my son occupied while I lie down on the couch being pregnant. One activity that was suggested to me to keep my 2 year old busy was playdough. My friend Lisa (who used to teach developmentally delayed pre-schoolers) was the source for this idea.

I knew that playdough was easy enough to make at home, so I searched online and found a quick and easy recipe requiring only flour, water and salt. One thing to be aware of is that you will be using a lot of salt, so be sure you have plenty on hand.

I stuck my concoction in the freezer for half an hour to cool it down. After that I kneeded it a bit and it looked like this:
It is very sticky, so you might want to add a little extra flour to lessen the sticky-factor.

Ari seemed to like it.
My dad made a horse with it, upon Ari’s request.

The other day, my dear friend Josina gave me a break from parenting. She agreed to watch Ari at her place while I went to the movies with my parents. For those that are interested, I saw “The Kids Are Alright.”

Ari was pleased because he got to spend time with his best buddy Nelson. Here are the pictures from Ari and Nelson’s day together.

It seems like they had a great time! Yay for Josina!

I am heading into my second trimester of pregnancy and, unfortunately for me, my level of exhaustion is still high. Ari, my little roving two year old, has no shortage of energy. This presents a problem. In my current physical state (being three months pregnant) I lack the energy to chase after him. In fact I was so exhausted and hyper-emotional about my lack of “mom energy” that I called my friend Josina (mother of Ari’s best friend, Nelson) crying because all I could seem to do was put Ari in front of Blue’s Clues and lie on the couch.

Josina was very supportive and listened to my sad story. She said something that really stuck with me:
“Kids need structure. He is probably happy to watch all that TV, but he is also probably confused as to why you are suddenly allowing him to do so.”

I agree with Josina. I have to come up with activities that Ari can do while I lie on the couch being pregnant and tired. Please post a comment with an activity idea for me to try!

I was disproportionally excitied about today. Today was the day that the FDNY (Fire Department of the City of New York) was visiting Ari’s pre-school. I thought he would be as excited as I was, and he fooled me into believing that this was the case. All morning he was running around the living room yelling “firemen!”
Wil asked him “Are you going to see the firemen today?”
“Yes!” He replied triumphantly.

We got on the train and headed to pre-school. The minute I pushed the stroller onto the subway car, he demanded to sit in an actual seat.

In order to get him into the seat, I had to do this to my stroller:

A woman saw me taking pictures and must have assumed I was a tourist. She asked:
“Would you like me to take a picture of you guys?”
“Sure, why not?” I replied. Ari was suspicious of her real motivation.

We got off the train and took the bus across town.

We arrived at school and in came the firemen!

They even had tools and uniforms!

I was excited. “Look Ari, firemen! Do you want to see the firemen?” I asked him.
“No!” He said. With that he promptly took a toy truck and ran away.

“Ari, look! They have suits and masks on!”
“No mommy! Choo-choo!” He screamed and went to play with a train set.

The firemen said goodbye and Ari could have cared less. As a parting gift, they left us with a fire fighting coloring book. After some time, Ari decided that he liked the coloring book.

I was really surprised that he was indifferent about the firemen. Perhaps if there was a real firetruck present he would have been more intrigued.

After I posted I’m Not Married, I received a highly jugmental comment from an anonymous reader. It read like this:

“Anonymous said…

You are the product of how our society has become so immoral……there is no shame now in bringing illegitimate children into the world. We have become a Godless society…..and you my dear are helping us along the road to destruction. People have become soulless and just look to their own pleasures to fill empty lives….this is very sad. “

Here is my response:

“Anonymous - Thank you for your comment. You just proved my point about how self-righteous and judgmental society can be. As for being soulless, I don’t know you and I think it unfair for you to make judgments about whether or not I have a soul. I hope you feel better about yourself after posting this comment.”

Although the comment was hurtful, I’m glad this person made it. It proves my point: there are still judgmental people out there telling me that I am living in sin.

Though my Facebook relationship status indicates otherwise, I’m not married. Yes, I have a child, and yes I have a boyfriend. But, I am not married.

There is a reason for my blatant lie on Facebook. I am sick of dealing with the inappropriate comments that people make when they realize that I am not married and have a child.

Here are some of my favorites:
1. A co-worker said to me “You better get that ring, otherwise you are giving the milk away for free!”
2. “Is your boyfriend the father of your child?”

Here is the best one of all. I am now pregnant with my second child. I was asked this astute query:

3. “Is it the same father?”

Mind you, if I were married, people would not have the guts to question the paternity of my children. It would be assumed that these children were my husband’s. But, despite the fact that it is 2010 and not 1952, people cannot seem to process this information.

So, to the social networking world, I am effectively married. At least I can avoid ignorant questions online.