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Chasing Ghosts

I can remember your smile. I recall your laugh. We went on adventures together where we chased imaginary cars and closed restaurants. And you, a different you, I know you but we just met. Every time we see each other it’s like time hasn’t passed. I can see your eyes across the table. The creases [...]

By |2020-11-15T09:36:34-04:00November 15th, 2020|Poems, Stories|Comments Off on Chasing Ghosts

I’m scared

I'm scared. Anxiety is paralyzing. I feel like no matter what I do; it's the wrong thing. Being judged is scary. Being me is frightening. It's like I can't think straight. I'm scared of being scared. I feel like I'm naked, standing in front of hundreds of people, and they are picking apart what they [...]

By |2020-11-13T22:46:20-04:00November 13th, 2020|Uncategorized|Comments Off on I’m scared

And now a word from our old school sponsor: Pad Your Retirement with a Reverse Mortgage

And now...a word from our dope sponsor! Let me say this: I am getting old. I feel more connected to the “old school” part of my blog. I have been thinking about house-buying, and retirement. What the hell is happening to me? Anyway, here’s some sound advise on reverse mortgages. Maybe I will try one. [...]

By |2020-11-03T15:04:58-04:00November 3rd, 2020|Uncategorized|Comments Off on And now a word from our old school sponsor: Pad Your Retirement with a Reverse Mortgage

Therapy Shaming in Couples Counseling

Therapy Shaming Is it too early to get couples counseling? No. Couples counseling isn’t just for people who have been together for years and years. You can go into counseling when you’re having problems with your partner within a period of months. It depends on the relationship, and there’s no right answer as to when [...]

By |2019-05-23T15:38:50-04:00May 23rd, 2019|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Therapy Shaming in Couples Counseling

I require my therapist to care about me and respect my humanity

What do I want in a therapist? I don’t know what I want in a therapist. When I first started therapy, I had no idea what to expect. My therapist was an older woman, and I’ve mentioned her before on this blog; she was kind, and she listened more than she talked. At the time, [...]

By |2019-05-22T23:54:51-04:00May 22nd, 2019|Anxiety, Therapy, Uncategorized|Comments Off on I require my therapist to care about me and respect my humanity

I want to know everything about you…or do I?

Curiosity When I'm first getting to know a new friend, my curiosity is piqued. I want to know everything about them. I'm interested to hear their stories about childhood, where they grew up, their pets, their siblings, the relationship they had with their parents and how it was for them to be a child. I [...]

By |2019-05-03T06:13:05-04:00May 3rd, 2019|Uncategorized|Comments Off on I want to know everything about you…or do I?