Category Archives: Interviews

“Invisibility is the New Black” An Interview With Charlotte Bacon

On New Years Eve leading into 2010, I had the pleasure of meeting novelist and mother Charlotte Bacon at a Dunkin’ Donuts near Grand Central Terminal. Ms. Bacon was accompanied by her shockingly well-mannered 10 year old son, Toby, and her lovely psychologist friend, Rebecca.

We hit it off, exchanged contact info, and she agreed to let me and my friend and fellow blogger, Donna, interview her. We chose Barnes and Noble as the setting for the interview. We thought it fitting since she is a writer after all.

I asked Charlotte if she had a website I could link to on this post. She said she did not and commented:

“Sarah, invisibility is the new black.” In the tradition of famous writers across the world, she would rather stay incognito that indulge in self-promotion.

I adore Charlotte Bacon. She has so much insight to bring to the table on parenting, education, travel, and more. She provided so much valuable information on tape, that I had to break up the interview into multiple parts. Here is part one:

O.D.D.- What is It? An Interview With Dr. Jennifer Hartstein

I have been working as a substitute teacher for the NYC Department of Education now since April 2009. I have come across children with a variety of psychological issues, one of which is called “O.D.D.” I had never heard of this diagnosis before. So I decided to consult a professional for more information.

Enter Dr. Jennifer Hartstein to the rescue.

Dr. Hartstein took the time to answer some of my questions about O.D.D. Take a look:

  1. What is O.D.D.?
ODD (oppositional defiant disorder) is a psychiatric diagnosis given to children and adolescents who have some extreme, yet specific, disruptive behaviors. In fact, according to the DSM-IV, it falls under the category of Disruptive Behavior Disorders. Normal development for children includes tantrums, oppositional behaviors (what two year old hasn’t said “no”?), and periods of being mean or lying. Most children will grow out of these behaviors over time. Children and teens that meet criteria for ODD go beyond the “normal” lying, cheating and oppositional or defiant behaviors, meaning that these behaviors are more the norm than the exception. These children will suffer impairments in all aspects of their lives, with family, friends, teachers, etc.

According to the DSM-IV, the criteria for ODD require that four of eight symptoms be present for at least 6 months and that each of these symptoms be present “often”. The symptoms include: often loses temper, often argumentative, often defiant, often angry, often blames others, often purposefully annoys others, often touchy or easily upset, often spiteful and vindictive. (adapted from DSM-IV, American Psychiatric Association, 2000). The biggest distinction here is that while all children will, at times, experience some of these symptoms, this occasional difficulty is not enough to meet criteria for diagnosis.

2. How does O.D.D. manifest in children?

Children who have ODD suffer a degree of impairment that is beyond that of their “normal” counterparts. They will not only occasionally lie or cheat and demonstrate disruptive oppositional and defiant behavior, they will demonstrate these behaviors on a regular basis. Often, they behave in ways that demonstrate no regard for the rights and concerns of others. As a result, they will have difficulty making and maintaining friends, responding positively to adults, following the rules in class, etc.


To be more specific, there is a significant pattern of hostile, negative defiant behavior, which includes frequent loss of temper, arguing with adults, actively defying or refusing to follow rules, deliberately annoying others, blaming others for one’s own mistakes, being touchy or easily annoyed, being angry and resentful, and being spiteful and vindictive.

Many children who meet criteria may have low self-esteem. They may also demonstrate low frustration tolerance, significant mood swings, cursing and may often experiment with drugs and alcohol earlier than healthier counterparts.

3. Can a child have both A.D.D. and O.D.D.? If so how does this manifest?

Yes. Very often, ADD and ODD walk hand in hand. In fact, ADHD is one of the most commonly co-occurring diagnoses with ODD. According to the DSM-IV, approximately 50% of children with ADHD also suffer ODD, while 70% of children with ODD suffer ADHD.Presentation is similar for children with both ADD and ODD as it is with children with ODD singly. If diagnosed with both, however, in addition to the symptoms associated with ODD, there will be an increase in impulsivity and hyperactivity.

4. What can parents do to help a child that has O.D.D?

The good news is that it seems as though even without direct treatment, may children who are disruptive at a young age will demonstrate improvement over time and no longer meet criteria foe a disruptive behavior disorder. However, with the presence of treatment or help, it is possible to decrease these symptoms more rapidly.

It is important to reach out for help from professionals if a parent is concerned about his/her child’s behavior. First and foremost, it is so important to get a clear diagnosis and to understand if there are multiple diagnoses occurring together. Often times, addressing the concurrent problems (especially ADHD) can help to alleviate some of the disruptive behaviors. Generally the best intervention involves behavioral modification strategies, particularly those aimed at helping the parents make changes in their parenting styles. Medications may be indicated, if behavioral modifications do not influence change. If nothing works up front, the diagnosis may need to be revisited.

  1. What can educators do to help a child with O.D.D?

Similar to parents, behavioral modification in the classroom can really help children with these types of difficulties. Generally, the teacher should be considered part of the team working with a child with these problems. When thought of in this way, all changes being implemented should be brought to the classroom as well.

Jennifer L. Hartstein, PsyD, is currently in private practice in New York City, specializing in the treatment of high-risk children and adolescents. Prior to entering into full time private practice, she was the Clinical Director of the Discovery Center at the Child and Family Institute of St Luke’s-Roosevelt Hospital Center. The Discovery Center provides short-term substance abuse prevention and early intervention strategies for adolescents. Before working at the Child and Family Institute, Dr Hartstein was the Director of the Group Psychotherapy Program, Intake Coordinator of the Adolescent Depression and Suicide Program, and Attending Psychologist, at the Child Outpatient Psychiatry Department of Montefiore Medical Center/Albert Einstein College of Medicine, Bronx, NY.

Dr. Hartstein received her BA from George Washington University in Washington, DC before earning her MA in Dance/Movement Therapy from Hahnemann University in Philadelphia. She worked as an Allied Therapist on two adolescent inpatient units, creating and implementing group therapy programs, before returning to Yeshiva University to complete her doctorate in School-Child Clinical Psychology. Dr Hartstein works with children, adolescents and their families who have a wide range of psychological diagnoses. She has received intensive training in adolescent suicide assessment and has specialized in this population for several years, using a variety of treatment approaches, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Dr. Hartstein has published and presented on teen-related issues, and been asked to speak as an expert on a variety psychological issues in print and on television and radio.

Dr. Hartstein lives and practices in New York City.

On Crawling: Christine Labeste, Pediatric O.T. Speaks

As a child, I had a difficult time learning to hold a pencil. I later found out that this was connected to the fact that I skipped that crawling stage as a baby! I sat down with Christine Labeste, Pediatric Occupational Therapist, to get the scoop on crawling. Here’s what she had to say:


More on crawling from Ms. Labeste:

1. What is the importance of crawling?


Crawling is fairly important during development, but having tummy time is even more crucial. It provides many skills for development in the future. When children are on their stomachs, they are receiving sensory information on the whole front side of the body by bearing weight on their hands, wrist and elbows. It gives them information about where their bodies are in space, providing skills for future bilateral coordination and reciprocal movement (left and right working together). It also encourages binocular vision (being able to use both eyes to focus near and then far) since they can look close when using their hands and far when they need to get to an object. And most importantly, tummy time and crawling helps to strengthen the neck, upper torso, shoulder girdle, and the muscles needed in the hands for manipulating objects.


2. How can we encourage our children to crawl?

Since the advent of the “Back to Sleep” campaign due to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, babies are spending less time on their stomachs as in the past. Children can first be encouraged to tolerate being on their stomach for at a few minutes as early as newborns using high contract pictures and toys or getting the other parent on their stomach to talk, sing, make silly faces to the child. As they get older, mirrors and toys in front of them while their elbows are propped are great. For babies who have trouble maintaining propped on their elbows, placing a small towel or pillow under their underarm/chest area to give some extra support. Tunnels are a common toy to encourage crawling. Put something appealing at the other end such as a remote control or cell phone!

3. What happens if a child skips the crawling stage altogether?


Skipping crawling may affect a child’s ability to hold silverware or a pencil down the road, since the weight-bearing experience of crawling helps develop arches and stretch out ligaments in the wrist and hand that are needed for fine motor skills.

4. What rumors would you like to dispel about crawling?


That skipping crawling or tummy time won’t affect future development. As a pediatric OT, I see more and more cases of weak shoulders, poor hand strength and manipulation skills, and lots of handwriting problems. I think that if we had more babies crawling and crawling for longer periods of time, we would see a decreased occurrence of these problems. However, there are certainly some children who skip crawling altogether and are perfectly fine today. Overall, I think that crawling and tummy time should not be overlooked and that we should encourage our children to go through all the stages of development.



Time Out Tips From a Principal

The Lighthouse Child Development Center

I read an article in People magazine recently, while I was in a doctor’s office waiting room, about The Lighthouse Child Development Center; a pre-school in New York City that educates blind and sighted children in the same classroom.
I wrote to Lighthouse and set up a visit for my son and I. During the visit I interviewed principal, Greg Santamoor. I was truly impressed with Santamoor; I found him to be articulate and very easy to talk to. He was wonderful with my son as well.
Here is the video I made about my visit to The Lighthouse Child Development Center.

For more information about The Lighthouse Child Development Center, click here.

The H1N1 Deal: An Interview With Dr. Saul Hymes



When I was in the first grade, at P.S.87,I had the pleasure of meeting Saul Hymes, a smart sensitive character. I am not surprised to discover that over 20 years later, Saul Hymes has now become Saul Hymes, M.D.: a clinical fellow in Pediatric Infectious Disease. Dr. Hymes is still in training, but I know he has a long career ahead of him.



Dr. Hymes was kind enough to let me pick his brain regarding the current issue of H1N1 or (as the media likes to call it) “The Swine Flu.”

1. What is H1N1?



H1N1 is a new variant of the influenza virus. Why is it called that? The influenza virus is surrounded, like many viruses, by a protein coat. For the flu two of the components are the main ones our immune system recognizes to protect against the virus. They are called Hemaglutinin (H) and Neuraminidase (N). There are many variants of each that are numbered 1-16 for the H’s and 1-9 for the N’s though only a few of these are found in flu viruses that affect humans. There are also two main types of influenza or “the flu”: Influenza A and Influenza B. H1N1/”swine flu” is a type of Influenza A so we can ignore Influenza B for now.



Every year a new main one (or two) seasonal flu virus emerges as the one that will cause the usual flu season around the globe. It is of a particular H & N type and this usually drifts slightly from year to year as the virus mutates and changes. As the H & N proteins are called ‘antigens’ this is called ‘antigenic drift’. This is why you need a new flu shot every year. This year the expected seasonal flu types are H3N2 and…wait, this gets confusing…H1N1. Now, this H1N1 is not the same as the H1N1 everybody’s worried about. This is why simply saying H1N1 is not enough.


The official name for the current H1N1 swine flu is the “novel pandemic 2009 H1N1 Influenza A”. You’ll notice that ‘swine flu’ is nowhere in there. This was a political decision made so people didn’t go killing pigs, but this virus did indeed have its origins in both pigs and chickens. The reason it’s so new or novel and that there’s a separate vaccine and that everybody’s so concerned, is that this virus underwent what’s called ‘antigenic shift’ where instead of little changes in the H and the N, even though these are H1 and N1, as in the seasonal flu, they and the rest of the virus are different in other ways, making this a very different virus from the standpoint of immunity-thus the new vaccine, the presence of flu at an odd time of year, etc.


On the whole, however, this is simply a type of Influenza virus which can cause the same things influenza always does-illness ranging from mild upper respiratory infections, to more severe fevers, chills, and muscle aching, to bad pneumonia, to even worse effects in those more at risk. Thousands of adults and children worldwide die every year from the seasonal flu and many millions more are infected and recover as we all have year after year. The H1N1 “swine flu” is no different-most likely if you get it it will be mild. Some are unlucky and have more severe problems. There is no way to predict this in people who are otherwise healthy (those who are not are known to be more at risk) and that is why, as below, the vaccine is recommended.


2. What are the most common ways to catch H1N1?



H1N1 is transmitted the same way all influenza virus is transmitted-by spread of respiratory droplets, i.e. snot, mucus, spit when you cough or sneeze or even talk forcefully. So you can get it from close personal contact, from kissing, from being breathed on, from being coughed or spit or sneezed on, and sometimes from touching something immediately after someone with the flu has touched something if they just wiped their nose. That’s why when you cover your mouth to cough it’s better to use the crook of your arm. Your hand will just spread the virus more. And this is of course why kids get the flu and other viruses more easily-always rubbing and picking their noses, sneezing without covering, and being crowded with other kids in school and daycare.



3. Should we get vaccinated for H1N1? Should our kids get vaccinated for H1N1? Should parents get vaccinated for H1N1?


The short answer is, yes, all children should absolutely get vaccinated as they are at high-risk for flu-related complications. Parents should get it if they have children under 6 months who can’t get the vaccine, if they are pregnant, if they are health care personnel, or if they have one of the illnesses below. This is pending availability of the vaccine.



The longer answer follows, though is still fairly straightforward and I will quote the CDC-Centers for Disease Control-here. “We recommend that vaccination efforts should focus initially on persons in five target groups whose members are at higher risk for influenza or influenza-related complications, are likely to come in contact with influenza viruses as part of their occupation and could transmit influenza viruses to others in medical care settings, or are close contacts of infants aged <6>

  • Pregnant women,
  • Persons who live with or provide care for infants aged <6>
  • Health-care and emergency medical services personnel
  • Persons aged 6 months-24 years even if completely healthy
  • Persons aged 25-64 years who have medical conditions that put them at higher risk for influenza-related complications:
  • Asthma
  • Neurological and neurodevelopmental conditions [including disorders of the brain, spinal cord, peripheral nerve, and muscle such as cerebral palsy, epilepsy (seizure disorders), stroke, intellectual disability (mental retardation), moderate to severe developmental delay, muscular dystrophy, or spinal cord injury].
  • Chronic lung disease (such as chronic obstructive pulmonary disease [COPD] and cystic fibrosis)
  • Heart disease (such as congenital heart disease, congestive heart failure and coronary artery disease)
  • Blood disorders (such as sickle cell disease)
  • Endocrine disorders (such as diabetes mellitus)
  • Kidney disorders
  • Liver disorders
  • Metabolic disorders (such as inherited metabolic disorders and mitochondrial disorders)
  • Weakened immune system due to disease or medication (such as people with HIV or AIDS, or cancer, or those on chronic steroids)
  • People younger than 19 years of age who are receiving long-term aspirin therapy
The CDC has also decided, while initial vaccine supplies are so limited, to limit the recommendations even further to a smaller group at even higher risk:
  • Pregnant women,
  • Persons who live with or provide care for infants aged <6>
  • Health-care and emergency medical services personnel who have direct contact with patients or infectious material,
  • Children aged 6 months-4 years, and
  • Children and adolescents aged 5-18 years who have medical conditions that put them at higher risk for influenza-related complications.
Thus, if your child is over 4, for example, and their pediatrician has limited supply, your child would only get vaccine after everyone under 4 who wants it gets it.


Finally, who should NOT get the flu vaccine:
  • People who have a severe allergy to chicken eggs.
  • People who have had a severe reaction to an influenza vaccination.
  • People who developed Guillain-Barré syndrome (GBS) within 6 weeks of getting an influenza vaccine previously. (For information, see General Questions and Answers on Guillain-Barré syndrome (GBS).
  • Children younger than 6 months of age (influenza vaccine is not approved for this age group), and
  • People who have a moderate-to-severe illness with a fever (they should wait until they recover to get vaccinated.)

Otherwise, go get your vaccines as recommended above! The vaccine is safe and has been tested thoroughly-it is NOT experimental. It will NOT cause autism. There is NOTHING odd added to the vaccine. It is EXACTLY THE SAME in every way to the seasonal vaccine except that it is made from a different type of flu.


4. What specific precautions should we take to keep our children H1N1 free?



First and foremost, get your child vaccinated!!!


Then, the rest is really common sense for how anyone can avoid infection. Of course, some of this is easier said than done for younger kids:


-Cover your nose and mouth with a tissue
-Wash your hands well and often.
-Carry Purel around!
-Avoid touching your face, eyes, nose, mouth, etc.
-Avoid close contact with sick people
-Stay home until your fever is gone for 24 hours, unless you have to leave to get medical attention
-Follow public health advice re: school closure, avoid crowds, etc.

Links:

http://www.cdc.gov/h1n1flu/ (The CDC page on flu)
http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/flu/html/home/home.shtml (For those who live in the NYC area)
http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/rr5810a1.htm?s_cid=rr5810a1_e (For those who want to read more on vaccine recommendations)



A Trip To FAO Schwarz Story Time With Mint

Although I am with my son the majority of the time, there are days when I have to work. Today was one of those days. Instead of spending the day with his mama, my son had the pleasure of spending time with my best friend, Mint, who I have known since I was 12 years old.


On this particular day, Mint took my son to FAO Schwarz for their Barefoot Books Story Time session which occurs at 11am, 1pm and 3pm on Tuesdays and is FREE! Actually, Barefoot Books Story Time occurs almost daily. See end of post for details.

Since I wasn’t there for this excursion, I think it’s only fair that I interview Mint, personally, about their day together.

1. How was the subway ride there?

It was fun. I was guaranteed a seat! I loved that every time the doors opened at a stop, Ari pointed and said “AAh!” And then I would say “Not yet.” And he would relax until the next stop.


He also liked staring intently (menacingly?) at whoever sat next to me.

2. How did Ari react to all the toys?

He seemed perplexed and slightly frustrated by the many toys in boxes. It was like the possibility of toys without actually being able to play with them.


We did find some open toys which interested him briefly. He had more fun watching other kids and pushing the stroller.

**Please note, this video was taken after Ari had already pushed the stroller in a circular motion four times. By this point he was tiring of it.

3. Did he get to see the piano from the movie “Big”?

He wanted absolutely nothing to do with it. He was basically like “get me off this thing now!” I thought he might cry but he didn’t. He was more interested in the large windows behind it overlooking 58th Street.

4. How did he like Story Time?

Since we went to the later Story Time, he was pretty exhausted by that point. He almost took a nap on one of the pillows that were put out to sit on. During the first story he was more interested in the babies and one of dads. He really enjoyed the songs and the guitar. And I know he was paying attention to the second story, because when an older kid sat in front of him blocking the book, he started pointing frantically at him until he moved.

6. Sounds exciting! Did he nap at all during the day?

Very briefly in the morning. And then (as expected) he conked out on the train ride home. Right before he fell asleep, I even used his sleepiness as a justification for why he would not smile at the lady sitting next to me no matter how much she waved at him in attempt to break his intense stare.


It sounds like a great day! Mint even brought back an event calender from Barefoot books. For more information about Barefoot Books Story Time, visit their website here.