I Need Help, Instantly!

//I Need Help, Instantly!

I Need Help, Instantly!

I was talking to my great friend and fellow mama (she has two girls under the age of 2 G-d bless her) Cordy about the high stress life of motherhood. When the kids are screaming and you are trying to do 18 things at once, you take a split second to ask someone, maybe your husband/boyfriend/partner or a family member for help and they say:

“Give me a minute…” or “I’ll be there in five minutes,” or “Hold on a sec…”

When any of these things are said to me, and I actually legitimately need help because my stroller is going to topple over or I am danger of dropping my kid because I am holding too many other items, I want to FLIP OUT on the person. I don’t care WHO they are, they are not helping in the moment and that is unacceptable as far as I’m concerned.

I suppose in the case of relatives who do not have children of a toddler age, it can be difficult to understand that there is no “hold on a sec,” in the world of toddler. But still, give me a break and help me in the moment. Not five or ten minutes later, because my son is not on your time table.

The point is, when someone with a small child asks for assistance, don’t placate them with a time limit. Just help them.

By | 2014-04-06T02:07:12+00:00 January 7th, 2010|Rants|Comments Off on I Need Help, Instantly!
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