Dear Person I Offended

//Dear Person I Offended

Dear Person I Offended

Dear Person I Offended,

You will probably never read this letter, because we are no longer connected through the world of social media. I’m going to say these things anyway because I feel them. I wrote about my past. My past is something that haunts me. I feel things deeply. I use this space to express them. Sometimes they’re not pretty things. They are my reality. I told a story: that story involved you. I’m sorry if the way that I told the story offended you.

I am hurt by the way that you treated me in the past. I tried to tell you many times, but you ignored my attempts to express my feelings. I honor your feelings. I am willing to hear them, however, you do not feel the same about mine.

You called me offensive.
You said that I was nasty towards you.
I’m sorry you feel that way.
I feel badly that my truth and my words impacted you like that.
It was not my intention to hurt you.
It was my intention to tell my side of a story.

I am open to hearing your side.

But when you reached out to me to tell me how you felt, I was scared. I freaked out. I told you I couldn’t talk about it. There are extremely scary things that I’m dealing with in my life at the moment. There are harsh life challenges that require my 100 percent focus. My family needs me more than anything.

You say you were upset by my words, and your response was to call me names.

I want to make something clear to you, I did not call you names in what I wrote. I expressed genuine emotions. You may disagree or feel that I’m telling the story wrong, and you are entitled to you opinion, but please allow me to have mine.

Again, I apologize for any anger, pain, hurt and other emotions that I may have ignited in you. But I do not apologize for telling my story.

I wish you all the best.

By | 2014-04-06T01:43:56+00:00 April 1st, 2014|Uncategorized|2 Comments


  1. jess.⚓ April 1, 2014 at 10:28 am

    Great post! Your story is yours to tell. Person should feel free to speak their own truths, and not insult you for how you felt.

  2. Old School/New School Mom April 1, 2014 at 10:49 am

    Exactly. I don’t want to silence anyone and I don’t need anyone to silence me.

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